First of all, I’m a furry. Wolf, if that matters to you. My view is that if you can be anything, there’s no sense being stuck in the same human form. I’m a male in RL and a male in SL too. I’ve had female alts in other mucks, so I don’t consider it to be tabboo or unusual. The group I hang out with is about 2:1 female to male in SL. A couple of the females are RL males. I’m not concerned with it in the least because I like them for who they are in the game and for the people they are in RL. They are trusted friends in both places.

While sex isn’t my primary interest in SL, what I have is very enjoyable because my partners are descriptive, detailed, mature and caring. Being good writers is a plus – we don’t just turn on poseballs and grunt. If you want a good experience, get to know a few people whose company you enjoy and who you know can write a good love scene. If I take less than an hour, I’m doing something wrong. Good VR sex is in the mind, not in the poseballs, so strong writing talents and practice with trusted friends are key. We think of it as collaborative writing that gets the hormones burning.

As a woman in second life i have been able to meet a variety of people and gone and seen many different things. And the clothes are damn works of art. As in artist in RL I have come to love the fashion industry for what it is.

Then i ran into the troubling question. Should i let people know i am a man. I found the most wonderful person in the world who is now one of my best friends. She helped me come out to a few select people i know would not judge me for my sl choice. She helped me understand that its not the rl body you know, its the spark of that persons soul. And yes she is a female in rl. We have talked over skype and the phone and means the world to me as my friend.

Since my first days in sl i havent looked back.

Singed: Angel (part of one of my avs names guess me hahaahahhaha)