Comments on: Sex in SL: Dude Looks Like a Lady

By: Greginator

Greginator — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 14:48:29 +0000

Once women are honestly turned on a good % of them like to talk dirty. Maybe even more than men in SL because its not 100% socially acceptable and they wouldnt try it in RL with someone they didnt feel 1000% comfortable with during sex. The male ego being what it is.
Though women do need more time to get turned on and if someone starts talking dirty right out of the gate they are 95% of the time men.

By: sme

sme — Tue, 28 Aug 2007 00:27:06 +0000

It’s Second Life folks. If you want RL, it’s all around you – to get there you just leave SL. Simple really.

By: Bonnie Ruberg

Bonnie Ruberg — Fri, 24 Aug 2007 12:30:15 +0000

Just wanted to bring this up. It’s a piece from The Village Voice’s cybersex column called “OMG, That Woman I Just Had Cybersex with Is Really a Man!”. It also has tips for telling the gender of the person you’re cybering with:

http://www.villagevoice.com/screens/0735,screens,77594,28.html

By: Tom

Tom — Tue, 08 May 2007 02:03:22 +0000

Just to give men some credit, my girlfriend does, in fact, have dinner prepared for her every night by me. Either way, the most important thing in dealing with anything online related is to remember that there is a PERSON on the other end. Treat them with the same respect you would treat yourself or someone in the real world with.

By: dandellion Kimban

dandellion Kimban — Sat, 28 Apr 2007 09:33:17 +0000

“If you have a vagina, you think the way women think because you’re a woman. If you have a penis, you think the way men think because you’re a man.”

This sounds like a thought of someone who thinks with his penis or her vagina.

By: realityfish

realityfish — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 14:35:28 +0000

“Gender isn’t what’s between the legs, it’s what’s between the ears”

Right, and if you dream hard enough you can fly.

Gender is what’s between the legs. (And all over other parts of the body.) If you have a vagina, you think the way women think because you’re a woman. If you have a penis, you think the way men think because you’re a man.

There’s no touchy-feely blurring of it. Many things are not binary or black and white – but gender is.

By: realityfish

realityfish — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 14:19:59 +0000

All of you are fussing over something that’s going to be moot shortly anwyays. As soon as Voice Chat is rolled out you’ll see the number of gender benders suddenly dissolve.

“Oh I can’t find my microphone” won’t fly very long.

By: darkfoxx

darkfoxx — Fri, 27 Apr 2007 06:31:32 +0000

Gender isn’t what’s between the legs, it’s what’s between the ears

By: archie lukas

archie lukas — Thu, 26 Apr 2007 15:08:53 +0000

I actually read the article and loved the concepts expressed there.
Excellent.

Peeps – don’t take the arguments as holy gospel, the broad concept is truth as we know it.

The inherent humour in the article was cutting, witty and bloody clever. We need more of this authors incisive wit and less knee jerk reactions.

Chill a bit

Archie
SL male/male RL
Registered and licensed Authentic Pervert

By: shockwave yareach

shockwave yareach — Thu, 26 Apr 2007 14:23:18 +0000

Sadako: This unfortunately fails if the man has been married for more than 3 years because he has, by that time, been sent to the store for said products several times. And having learned the hard way that there IS a difference, only gets the RIGHT stuff.