Would this not be better to turn it back on the husband and sue him for not giving her his husbandly duties? Let me clarify… My little sister was in a car accident prior to turning 18. My mother was the owner of the car. At first sight no one was injured until the couple saw dollar signs. My mother was sued by the woman that was in the car and than sued by her husband because she could not perform her wifely duties as she was injured. Strange? yes! Stupid? Absolutely! Did they win the case? YES!

So where was dear ole hubby when her needs were not being met? Playing dirty? Subpoena his Viagra prescription and the bottle to see how many he actually took. If nothing else ask for a record on the number of times he showed her any affection at all.

My bet is on the wife…not that I think it is good what she did..she was wrong. But two wrongs never end up being right.

Translated: your activities haven’t turned on you and bitten you in the butt… YET.

Any person who gets married then thinks they can have affairs outside that marriage (with the consent of their mate or not) without eventual repercussions and consequenses is living in a bigger fantasy world than Second Life itself. Your world may not have crumbled down around you yet because of such. It will. Such activities are nothing more than loaded timebombs. The divorce rate in our country is rapidly approaching the 60% mark… undoubtedly due to a whole bunch of people who believe the statement you made above is actually valid. No offense intended. You’re entitled to your opinion. Just saying that the only thing going on is that the “rude awakening” hasn’t happened yet. It will.

Lie, Cheat, Sneak around, sure, you will get away with it in the short term, But it WILL eventually come back on you, and all the Rationalizations in the world won’t make your RL Losses any less real. If your willing to Risk your RL relationship, with someone you Claimed to love enough to share the rest of your life, All for a Few Vicarious thrills with soemone who “Doesn’t mean anything” to you, then honestly You Deserve to Lose them.

I have been Completely Honest with my Wife, about my On line Love Affairs, And she approves (And even supports me in them) As long as i Stick to the Limits we Discussed and agreed to at the Start.

One of the Oldest quotes I know, and i have no Idea of it’s oragins But;
“Cheaters never prosper”

Maria.

Yup, the U.S. is warped for sure. But we have no corner on the market.

England to this very day contains arrogant prejudice like no country I’ve ever seen.
Germany tried to murder an entire religion, or two, or three.
France thinks they’re better than everyone else.
Israel and Palestine can’t stop shooting at one another.

You’re right, no argument, “Only in America”. But I also think other countries are doing their very best to try to keep up.

Mankind as a whole is borked.

“Only in America…….”

(referring to the weirdest shit can only ever happen there)

Its no insulting your flag -its just the state of play and the nastiest of rich lawyers who prey on ordinary people to get bigger cars to compensate for their exceptionally small penises.

I agree with the statement above just as I agree with the statement: ” if you can’t do the time, do not do the crime”.

Everyone who is engaging in sexual or dating activity in SL and IS married, should be prepared to deal with consequences of their indiscretion.

Just as in RL…

http://elliptic.typepad.com/elliptic_blog/2004/01/second_life_add.html

With that said…you probably would have had an alltogether different “sexual” experience if you had gotten to hear the real voice of who you were pretending to get it on with.

I find the concept of fidelity and SL to be pretty intriguing. Anyone who gets RL emotions wrapped up in an SL relationship are just asking for trouble…but when they have a RL marriage and are going and messing around on SL it’s a whole different mess.

My guess is that the divorce isn’t because of SL activity but because of damage in the relationship that resulted in this person deciding to get their kicks on SL rather than with their hubby…and thinking they should be able to get away with it.

The act of typing and clicking in poseballs isn’t the issue here. It’s the simulation of intimacy in place of the actual intimace you should be having with someone you’re married to if you have any desire to actually be married to that person.

Essentially it would mean EXACTLY the same if you were talking dirty to people you knew over the phone or via snail mail. Would you be mad if someone you loved was receiving mail with naughty letters accompanied by racy pictures of that individual even if they lived on the other side of the world? There’s no difference between that and getting freaky on SL.

I know a lot of people abhor verification and the collection of their information when using SL because they want to go somewhere where there aren’t any consequences for your actions beyond getting orbited or tped to your home point. These same people also try to make money and make a valid business platform out of SL. You gotta pick one.