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	<title>Comments on: The Voyeur—Stable Relationships</title>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18255</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2007 15:50:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Penny is the sacred cow at the Herald, Lola.

All puns intended.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Penny is the sacred cow at the Herald, Lola.</p>
<p>All puns intended.</p>
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		<title>By: Corona</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18254</link>
		<dc:creator>Corona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 07:03:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Sue - your reply  is why I added the key end word - &#039;discuss&#039;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Sue &#8211; your reply  is why I added the key end word &#8211; &#8216;discuss&#8217;</p>
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		<title>By: Lola Quijybo</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18253</link>
		<dc:creator>Lola Quijybo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 20:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like how my comment about how Penance is fat and endorsing women to be fat (and saying women WANT to be fat so they can have big tits like hers) was deleted... but this one...

&quot; &quot;superior knowledge&quot;

Superior faggotry is more like it.&quot;

... was not deleted. Did she get her poor feelings hurt again? It&#039;s okay if others talk trash about other people, but heaven forbid if it gets said to a staff member.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like how my comment about how Penance is fat and endorsing women to be fat (and saying women WANT to be fat so they can have big tits like hers) was deleted&#8230; but this one&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8221; &#8220;superior knowledge&#8221;</p>
<p>Superior faggotry is more like it.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230; was not deleted. Did she get her poor feelings hurt again? It&#8217;s okay if others talk trash about other people, but heaven forbid if it gets said to a staff member.</p>
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		<title>By: anon</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18252</link>
		<dc:creator>anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 18:28:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;because these people want someone to boss them around and control them. Engage brain, you insecure, emotionally fucked up wastes of space.

ITT WE OVERANALYZE SEXUAL FETISHES, NOT ACCEPTING THAT PEOPLE JUST LIKE THEM

If people take that bullshit outside of the bedroom and just want someone to control them, that&#039;s stupid. But otherwise it&#039;s just a fetish, and in that case who gives a flying fuck?
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>>because these people want someone to boss them around and control them. Engage brain, you insecure, emotionally fucked up wastes of space.</p>
<p>ITT WE OVERANALYZE SEXUAL FETISHES, NOT ACCEPTING THAT PEOPLE JUST LIKE THEM</p>
<p>If people take that bullshit outside of the bedroom and just want someone to control them, that&#8217;s stupid. But otherwise it&#8217;s just a fetish, and in that case who gives a flying fuck?</p>
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		<title>By: DaveOner</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18251</link>
		<dc:creator>DaveOner</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 13:48:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with the majority of what Blak said regarding the submissive girl&#039;s issues. Sounds like she&#039;s not a very good submissive and is getting the result of buying into a system where your feelings are secondary. I think you should either stay and take it or give up the whole D/s thing altogether as you don&#039;t seem to be cut out for it.

As far as #2, most dudes in SL tend to go all horny/batshit crazy when they meet a girl in SL who&#039;s actually a girl IRL. Once they find one that&#039;s somewhat interested in them they want to keep her like a bird in a cage. A lot of desperate guys IRL are the same way. That sounds to me like what you&#039;re getting.

if you&#039;re going into SL with the intent on hooking up then you&#039;re never going to get into a satisfying relationship. This is true of RL as well. The people that go out with the express intent to hook up and get a b/f or g/f end up in relationships that are shallow at best and abusive at the worst.

Just do your thing, talk with people and hang out. If there&#039;s someone worth getting attached to they&#039;ll show up on their own. You might want to apply the same to RL!

Once again the story is completed in the comments. I&#039;d almost like this format if I knew these articles were written incomplete or otherwise badly on purpose.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the majority of what Blak said regarding the submissive girl&#8217;s issues. Sounds like she&#8217;s not a very good submissive and is getting the result of buying into a system where your feelings are secondary. I think you should either stay and take it or give up the whole D/s thing altogether as you don&#8217;t seem to be cut out for it.</p>
<p>As far as #2, most dudes in SL tend to go all horny/batshit crazy when they meet a girl in SL who&#8217;s actually a girl IRL. Once they find one that&#8217;s somewhat interested in them they want to keep her like a bird in a cage. A lot of desperate guys IRL are the same way. That sounds to me like what you&#8217;re getting.</p>
<p>if you&#8217;re going into SL with the intent on hooking up then you&#8217;re never going to get into a satisfying relationship. This is true of RL as well. The people that go out with the express intent to hook up and get a b/f or g/f end up in relationships that are shallow at best and abusive at the worst.</p>
<p>Just do your thing, talk with people and hang out. If there&#8217;s someone worth getting attached to they&#8217;ll show up on their own. You might want to apply the same to RL!</p>
<p>Once again the story is completed in the comments. I&#8217;d almost like this format if I knew these articles were written incomplete or otherwise badly on purpose.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18250</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 09:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also, these bdsm relationships are pathetic, especially the sub side of it, because these people want someone to boss them around and control them. Engage brain, you insecure, emotionally fucked up wastes of space.

Just join the fucking army if you want someone else to control you like a pawn.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, these bdsm relationships are pathetic, especially the sub side of it, because these people want someone to boss them around and control them. Engage brain, you insecure, emotionally fucked up wastes of space.</p>
<p>Just join the fucking army if you want someone else to control you like a pawn.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18249</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 09:17:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>why is this an article?

are you fucking kidding me?
Is SL this bad where sex = BDSM?

fucking hell guys.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>why is this an article?</p>
<p>are you fucking kidding me?<br />
Is SL this bad where sex = BDSM?</p>
<p>fucking hell guys.</p>
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		<title>By: Allana Dion</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18248</link>
		<dc:creator>Allana Dion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 14:11:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angel: &gt;&quot;Keep looking scheherazade, and when you find Him, serve Him with all your heart and soul so that He doesn&#039;t need anyone else on His chain.&quot;

Ugh, I get so tired of this one. &quot;If I&#039;m a good enough sub he won&#039;t need anyone else&quot;, Seriously? Like being a doormat?
It&#039;s like any other relationship, you find someone who is compatible and build a solid commitment to one another. If you&#039;re not into poly relationships, you make that clear from the start and seek out only a partner who also prefers monogamy.  If you&#039;re into poly relationships, you also make that clear from the start and respect the other person&#039;s limits.
If you&#039;re involved with someone who expects you to share their time and affections and knows you&#039;re unhappy with that, then you&#039;re with someone who cares more for his own needs than yours and why the hell would you stay and accept that?

Sherazade, tell the guy you expect monogamy and if he&#039;s not interested in that, move on.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angel: >&#8221;Keep looking scheherazade, and when you find Him, serve Him with all your heart and soul so that He doesn&#8217;t need anyone else on His chain.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ugh, I get so tired of this one. &#8220;If I&#8217;m a good enough sub he won&#8217;t need anyone else&#8221;, Seriously? Like being a doormat?<br />
It&#8217;s like any other relationship, you find someone who is compatible and build a solid commitment to one another. If you&#8217;re not into poly relationships, you make that clear from the start and seek out only a partner who also prefers monogamy.  If you&#8217;re into poly relationships, you also make that clear from the start and respect the other person&#8217;s limits.<br />
If you&#8217;re involved with someone who expects you to share their time and affections and knows you&#8217;re unhappy with that, then you&#8217;re with someone who cares more for his own needs than yours and why the hell would you stay and accept that?</p>
<p>Sherazade, tell the guy you expect monogamy and if he&#8217;s not interested in that, move on.</p>
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		<title>By: Angel</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18247</link>
		<dc:creator>Angel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 08:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt; &quot;Good doms are in high demand in Second Life. When you find the right one, you will know.&quot;

Absolutely right. Although I have only had my Owner for 6 weeks my dedication to Him grows daily, I have never seen a Master so skilled, so perfect.

Keep looking scheherazade, and when you find Him, serve Him with all your heart and soul so that He doesn&#039;t need anyone else on His chain.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>> &#8220;Good doms are in high demand in Second Life. When you find the right one, you will know.&#8221;</p>
<p>Absolutely right. Although I have only had my Owner for 6 weeks my dedication to Him grows daily, I have never seen a Master so skilled, so perfect.</p>
<p>Keep looking scheherazade, and when you find Him, serve Him with all your heart and soul so that He doesn&#8217;t need anyone else on His chain.</p>
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		<title>By: Sue</title>
		<link>http://alphavilleherald.com/2007/12/the-voyeurstabl.html/comment-page-1#comment-18246</link>
		<dc:creator>Sue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Dec 2007 01:02:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Corona:  I don&#039;t have to find comfort or companionship on a computer.  And I am hardly a loner.  I have tons of friends in real life.  But looking back, &quot;never&quot; is not the word.  Rarely talk to anyone else is more like it.  SL is fun for me...and that&#039;s all.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Corona:  I don&#8217;t have to find comfort or companionship on a computer.  And I am hardly a loner.  I have tons of friends in real life.  But looking back, &#8220;never&#8221; is not the word.  Rarely talk to anyone else is more like it.  SL is fun for me&#8230;and that&#8217;s all.</p>
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