by Alphaville Herald on 12/06/09 at 7:59 am
Don't date guys who think brushed out perms are hot, and evaluate their success on the number of levels their EQ2 elf -❋Łƚƪą❋
by Dr. Penelope Hydra – Internet love and sex expert
It all started so innocently. A Plurk line began by Delora Starbook that said, "Hi Dancien!" (Graves) turned into a 1300-reply plurk thread ripping into a would-be Second Life and Internet casanova, Sands Leavitt. Insults flew, ex-girlfriends jumped into the fray and even worse – questions were raised about Sands' boasts that he is good looking. Photographs of Sands from Sands himself are a bit grainy – perhaps the lighting in the basement was lacking. Are these the signs of a true ladies' man?
What kind of women? The gossip says the more emotionally gimped they appear to be,the better – he's been known to skip over the pretty young singleSecond Life girls – yes, they do exist – to obsess over a married womanwith children. Some claim his last four girlfriends have been married withchildren and the ones who are not don't last long with him. Sands willfind new victims, send countless complimentary messages, kisstheir feet, and won't stop until he has decided that he "has" them — after spending many energy points talking the woman's real lifesignificant other down while talking himself up, all to secure a better position in that woman's life.
Some of Sands' targets tell me that he hasno problem giving out his cell phone number to women – but his work locationis something he keeps more secure. While he has been known to get womenhe's had relationships with on webcam, he has never been seen on webcamhimself. This raises the question of whether the pictures floatingaround the internet of Sands aka, EQ2 Zhouyu The Great, from The Highlight are real.
If the womanbreaks off an affair with Sands, the insults fly. He's been known to call his ex's "whores", "trash","leftovers", and worse. No matter who broke therelationship off, Sands claims he was the one whobroke it off. Internet romantic breakups can be rocky enough without this sort of abuse – so beware.
Sands often mentions the girl's children after breakup.He sends one of these children (Ex #4 in the plurk threads below) gifts. As an internet advice columnist, my professional opinion is that mothers should reject the presents, or at least put then through inthe dishwasher – there may be meth residue.
Excerpts from the record-setting plurk thread:
Delora says Hi Dancien!
posted on June 08, 2009 at 12:04AM – 1313 responses to this plurk. )
June 08, 2009 at 00:06 Dancien says Hey does this rag smell like chloroform?
June 08, 2009 at 00:07 Delora says … Don't do that, that's sexy.
June 08, 2009 at 00:11 Sands says you added this bottom feeding trash bag piece of crap to your timline? you THAT desperate?
It went on…
June 08, 2009 at 00:56 Sands shares LOOK at yourself Dan, just LOOK at yourself
June 08, 2009 at 00:56 Sands shares you have NO business calling ANYONE trash
June 08, 2009 at 00:57 Dancien says Well yeah princess. You're trash. You're one of the ugliest people I have ever met, on the inside and the out. Really, I pity you
June 08, 2009 at 01:00 Sands shares what.about.this.scene.don't.you.get… http://theodaclan.eq2guilds.org/image_gallery.vm?categoryId=83870
June 08, 2009 at 01:00 Sands says huh? I mean look at me
June 08, 2009 at 01:01 Sands says you think you are more intelligent than me? you think you are better looking than me? you think you have more class than me ?
June 08, 2009 at 01:01 Sands says you think you are more desirable than me ? …..
June 08, 2009 at 01:01 Sands says well news flash Dan, you're not.
June 08, 2009 at 01:05 Sands says fact remains, when you are in a worn out t-shirt walking down the street to the super market
June 08, 2009 at 01:06 Sands says i am dressed up in suits and shirts that every single one of my outfits cost more than what you make in a month
June 08, 2009 at 01:07 Sands says YOU can sit here and lie to yourself as much as you like, but all you are and always will be is nothing more than
June 08, 2009 at 01:07 Sands says internet "bad ass" wanna be blogger with a face that scares childeren and adults alike
June 08, 2009 at 01:07 Dancien says ZZZZZzzzZZZZzz Boring
June 08, 2009 at 01:10 ❋Łƚƪą❋ Sands barely graduated highschool, works in a mall stocking up video games at EB. Sands has to be one of the most revolting men ive seen
June 08, 2009 at 01:10 ❋Łƚƪą❋ he has a giant nose, bad hair, and looks like he needs to work out and build some muscle cuz his skinny ass would get laughed at in my crew
June 08, 2009 at 01:10 ❋Łƚƪą❋ What Sands didn't expect was that every girl he's ever used as his beard would come out and berate him within that same plurk thread.
June 08, 2009 at 01:23 Vivianne says i mean in all honesty and without getting into the flame war thing, I'm sure you are handsome to some girls and I'm glad you get your share
June 08, 2009 at 01:24 Vivianne says but to me, you look like a caricature of that vanilla ice guy and if you came on to me i'd laugh in your face
Sands' ex girlfriends from other video games (Star Wars Galaxies, etc) began registering on Plurk and adding in their two cents:
June 08, 2009 at 02:39 Ex #1 says I have kept my mouth shut for ohhh I dunno… like 8 months? But Sands, you shouldn't be telling others about being a better person
June 08, 2009 at 02:40 Ex #1 says even when I know you've talked shit about ME to other people, and have spread rumors, I STILL stayed silent…
June 08, 2009 at 02:41 Ex #1 says So right now, I am just gonna say it… shuuut the fuck up, can't you please just SHUT THE FUCK UP? I dunno, anyone else feel that way?
June 08, 2009 at 02:49 Sands says really funny watching all the women who started with me all the compliments who are the ones who contributed to my ego boost
June 08, 2009 at 02:49 Sands says l mad AFTER they realized i picked someone else
June 08, 2009 at 02:51 Ex #1 says Sands, I am pretty sure you remember the many nights I spent telling you face to face you are a dickhead…
June 08, 2009 at 02:52 Felicity says , but if you think those were compliments… well shit..
June 08, 2009 at 02:52 Sands says you people are really that stupid? find someone who hasn't stripped for me on webcam or hasn't hit on me to start a convo with me or
June 08, 2009 at 02:52 Sands says hasn't overly enjoyed herself during our voice conversations *coughs* to come and try those comments
June 08, 2009 at 02:53 Sands says then MAYBE ….MAYBE if you catch me on a bad day and i have less than 5 women hitting on me
June 08, 2009 at 02:53 Sands says it MIGHT bother me
June 08, 2009 at 02:53 ❋Łƚƪą❋ Hey Sands, werent you the one that BAREEEELY got a high school diploma
June 08, 2009 at 02:57 Ex #1 is gonna leave … I know there isn't even any real point in speaking to him, it goes in one ear and out the other.
June 08, 2009 at 02:58 Sands says barely got a high school diploma ? i skipped over 30 math classes my last year and still got a 91% lol
June 08, 2009 at 03:20 Sands says a bunch of unattractive ugly mugs banding together to make themselves feel better !
Anonymous Ex#2 says I don't really care about all the drama, but Sands… wasn't it like 2 days ago you were hitting on Ryker in her plurk because you were
June 08, 2009 at 07:57 Anonymous Ex#2 says says single? But you're back with your GF now? Shame you decided you could get over her so quick, isn't it, Mr Lover Lover
June 08, 2009 at 08:28 marnigrut that picture looks like Bonos odd twin. and yes someones rocking bouffant hair. George Michel will be pleased of his legacy.
June 09, 2009 at 01:54 Rawrer says maybe he likes women with kids so he can keep up his pedo-fantasies
Anonymous Ex #3 jumps in and slaps Sands around a little:
June 09, 2009 at 03:32 whocaresboutit has some thoughts on all this
June 09, 2009 at 03:32 whocaresboutit Sands is a liar
June 09, 2009 at 03:32 whocaresboutit Sands knows how to play games
June 09, 2009 at 03:33 whocaresboutit Sands only objective is to win the game at any cost
June 09, 2009 at 03:41 whocaresboutit Sands likes attractive hi profile women who may or may not be lacking in the "attention" dept
June 09, 2009 at 03:42 whocaresboutit Sands wants everybody to think of him as a winner
June 09, 2009 at 03:42 whocaresboutit Sands is always the victim
June 09, 2009 at 03:46 whocaresboutit Sands has learned how to be initially attractive to women (at least online)
June 09, 2009 at 03:46 whocaresboutit Sands has learned what to say, how to say it, how often to say it, to achieve his goals
June 09, 2009 at 03:46 whocaresboutit Sands has learned what to look for in women that are "open" to his initial charms
June 09, 2009 at 03:51 whocaresboutit Sands knows that everybody wants to feel good about themselves, and plays to that
June 09, 2009 at 03:51 whocaresboutit Sands can be very attractive at first but as time goes on his act becomes apparent
June 09, 2009 at 03:52 whocaresboutit Sands will attack these plurks regarding spelling or grammer or ask for a picture to prove the point
June 09, 2009 at 03:52 whocaresboutit Sands will be sad the day his looks fail and he has nothing left
June 09, 2009 at 03:53 whocaresboutit Some accuse Sands of being gay. Nothing wrong with being gay. If you are gay Sands…embrace it!
June 09, 2009 at 03:53 whocaresboutit Sands is a Drama junkie
June 09, 2009 at 03:53 ᏪᏘǐƞǐƮ you know alot about sands
June 09, 2009 at 03:55 whocaresboutit Sands needs a fix of Drama everyday
June 09, 2009 at 03:55 whocaresboutit Sands accuses everybody around him of that to which he is guilty
June 09, 2009 at 03:55 whocaresboutit If you want to understand Sands read what he accuses everybody else of doing
June 09, 2009 at 03:55 whocaresboutit Sands is afraid
June 09, 2009 at 03:56 whocaresboutit Sands knows he is not all he says he is.
June 09, 2009 at 03:56 whocaresboutit Sands yells and screams at the top of his lungs that he is the shit hoping someone will believe it
June 09, 2009 at 03:56 whocaresboutit Sands expells a ton of energy to PROVE he is a man. Who is he trying to convince?
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 ❋Łƚƪą❋ he attacks anyone who is a threat to his ego
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 whocaresboutit Sands knows he can make some people believe it, at least for a short while
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 whocaresboutit Sands is a very shallow scared little boy
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 ❋Łƚƪą❋ indeed…*nods*
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 whocaresboutit Sands will show the SAME picture of himself, over and over, like an aging football player showing his photos of his one winning game
June 09, 2009 at 03:57 whocaresboutit Sands might find a recent picture of himself and post it to try and prove all of what I am saying is wrong
June 09, 2009 at 03:58 whocaresboutit Whoever happens to be Sands latest partner will eventually figure it all out. I have faith. Look at all the others that did!
June 09, 2009 at 03:59 whocaresboutit Sands seems to have A LOT of ex's. Some might be bitter. I am thinking not ALL of them.
June 09, 2009 at 03:59 whocaresboutit If you hear something from one person, be skeptical. If you hear it from two, be suspicious.
June 09, 2009 at 03:59 whocaresboutit If you hear the same thing from 10's of people, start to wonder.
June 09, 2009 at 03:59 whocaresboutit and that is all I have to say about that. For now..:-)
Ex-girlfriend #4 jumps in
June 09, 2009 at 12:30 Ex#4 says Sands is the last person that should be berating someone for bringing kids into an issue, when he showed no such qualms about dragging
June 09, 2009 at 12:31 Ex#4 says my son and my parenting into his drama months ago. And this is a little boy he claims to love more than anything and still asks me about
June 09, 2009 at 12:32 Ex#4 says and he's NOT an honest person. Lying is as natural to him as breathing. Nearly everything about our 3+ yrs together was wrapped in his lies
June 09, 2009 at 12:33 Ex#4 says lies about his age, lies about his cheating, lies about other people, lies about me to other people…it goes on and on
June 09, 2009 at 12:35 Ex#4 says he even lies to and about his current "victim". Does she know? Does she know how you were trying to cheat on her with me and got rejected?
June 09, 2009 at 12:36 Ex#4 says Does she know about your phone calls to me 2-3 weeks ago, begging for phone sex, claiming you "missed me, wanted me, weren't over me"?
June 09, 2009 at 12:44 Ex#4 says he is manipulative, sociopathic, abusive, a compulsive liar, petty, obsessive, and cruel.
June 09, 2009 at 12:45 Ex#4 says he is attracted to the image of success and power. he goes after married women with kids because he gets off on being a "boytoy" and because
June 09, 2009 at 12:45 Ex#4 says they are "safe" – he thinks they will never leave their families in pursuit of something real with him
June 09, 2009 at 12:47 Ex#4 says yet he will inject himself into their "RL" as much as possible, because it is an ego trip for him. We're just masturbation material for him
June 09, 2009 at 12:47 Ex#4 says he lives in his little online fantasy world because he can hype himself up as much as he wants and there will always be some sucker that
June 09, 2009 at 12:48 Ex#4 says believes his bullshit, and he NEVER has to prove it because his RL is safe and secure behind his computer screen
June 09, 2009 at 17:12 Ex#4 says he used to tell me "if only you would give me 3somes, I would be the best boyfriend in the world to you"
What does it all mean?
Sands is purportedly a playboy from Canada who works in a high-ranking position with EB Games. He has claimed to own his own house – yet willingly lives in the basement – and drive a BMW. He also claims he has dozens of women fawning over him at any given moment. He claims he plays soccer recreationally, but with all those online girls to keep up with, how does he find the time?
Ladies, take warning. Sands Leavitt is obsessed with George Michael and wrestling. His favorite video game of all time is Metal Gear Solid and has been known to cry over the "touching" story line. If you catch his attention, if you broadcast that you are in a relationship or might have kids, it won't be long before Mr. Wonderful is knocking on your door. Don't answer it without your shotgun.
June 09, 2009 at 05:33 ❋Łƚƪą❋ moral of the story…Dont date guys who think brushed out perms are hot, and evaluate their success on the number of levels their EQ2 elf