Can Slave Girl #10 Hold Gorean Master’s Attention?
by Alphaville Herald on 13/08/07 at 8:13 pm
Kefinitely! Our #1 super-secret advice for the savvy kajira will move you to the front of the chain!!!
by Aaliyah Munro, professional sex/love/advice expert
After becoming immersed in roleplay, assuming the identity of a precocious junior college student and a curvy red fox, I’ve found that I the role I enjoy most is that of a submissive pleasure slave in Gor; through my roleplay, however, I’ve found that there are many unhappy kajirae with loads of questions about sex and relationships, looking for someone to spill to through an instant message.
As a beginner in Gor and new reader of John Norman’s series, I will not profess to be the expert on this topic per se; although I can offer practical relationship advice, there are excellent resources that can be found through a simple Google search, of which I encourage you to use as a springboard, if you are not familiar. What I aim to address is the drama surrounding the plight of the kajira, as told by answering questions whispered amongst the city slaves.
Q- I’m a pleasure slave whose Master has 10 girls on his chain, including me. How can I please my Master and hold his attention, individually? KM
A- Your purpose and main role as a pleasure slave is to please and be pleasing to your Master and all Free. This role is all about the fine art of mental sensuality- that is, if you can explain in minute detail about how you’ll fur your Master’s brains out, chances are he’ll keep you around, and maybe even yank the chain a little closer to his boot.
Because you’re one of ten, you have a lot of competition to linguistically beat out; my suggestion is to take a simple sentence and elaborate in such an eloquent nature that your Master will have no choice but to pay attention to you. Take this sentence for example: “My Master, this one would like to fur you.” Adding pizazz and well placed adjectives, you can be the object of his desires:
“(Your Name) feels her tight, smoldering heat become moist, not only soiling her thin, tattered white panties, but leaving a small trail of wet lust on her Master’s boot, at the place where she was perched. Excited, she rises slowly, swiftly grabbing her Master’s bulge before whispering ‘Master, this one’s loins tingle at the sight of your most impressive physique. May this one please you physically?’”
Since your Master has a lot of kajirae at his feet, I’d wait for a quiet moment at home or some other opportune time to spew this rant, but trust me, the more explicit you are, the better. After all, you are a slut- start talking like one, and you’ll fulfill your destiny.
Q-Besides commands, my Master and I rarely communicate with each other. I have no idea what to talk to him about, in RP or OOC (Out of Character). Help! SF
A- Hmm- this makes me think of a quote from the book I’m reading (acquired from Page 42 of the Tribesman of Gor):
“…the slave girl is not simply someone with whom the man lives; she is very special to him; she is a treasured possession; he owns her; he wants to know her; profoundly and deeply; the background, history, the mind, the intelligence, the appetites, the nature and disposition of his lovely article of property; this knowledge, of course, puts her more at his mercy; by making it possible to manipulate her feelings, exploit weaknesses, drop asides…she is in the helpless condition of slavery, it gives him more power over her.”
Just talk! If you’re Master is as the quote describes, speak openly about what interests you, even if its only the weather or time of day. Talk about how hot he looks with his weaponry. Ask him about his travels, how his day was, how you can please him, what he would like to see from you- open your mind, and the words should flow freely. You’re collared, so now is not the time to recoil. Use the aforementioned quote to elaborate on certain topics of interest. If your Master is simply uninterested in communicating with you, you may want to consider other alternatives…
One last thing-
I know that you’ve noticed that Mr. Wendell is running an advice column, providing super practical love and sex advice for both lives. Yawn- he’s way too safe for me; if you want work-friendly advice, go to Wendell. If you long for it deep, hard, and fast, shoot your most disgusting questions (about any SL community) this way.
For instance- the stalker dude? Come on- we all know the “girlfriend” was sleeping with the landlord for the rent, and the landlord was staking his claim by caging the boyfriend- pull the fur back (mmm furring…) and get a grip. Odette=hoe, plain and simple. We all know that real life emotion is transmitted through our avatars, and Odette should have known the age-old best friend code- you don’t sleep with your best friend’s boyfriend, no matter if it was for tricks or not. The L$ she earned cost her a friendship, one which was probably more valuable than whatever Odette earned from the asshole boyfriend. Chick with kids- dumb move, telling your husband that SL lights your fire, not him. Wendell was right on this one- go and fuck your husband, and use what you’ve learned on SL in the RL bedroom.
So that’s it. Again, send your questions and death threats to aaliyah.munro@gmail.com , and I’ll give you advice or find you and whip your ass. Either way, we’ll have fun! ;o)
N3X15
Aug 13th, 2007
you could also hide lolcubes in your ass
that always works
Anonymous
Aug 13th, 2007
“Your purpose and main role as a pleasure slave is to please and be pleasing to your Master and all Free.”
So s/he’s a slave to his/her master.
“If your Master is simply uninterested in communicating with you, you may want to consider other alternatives…”
But now s/he should be more concerned about him/herself than his/her master?
How does that work?
Artemis Fate
Aug 13th, 2007
“you could also hide lolcubes in your ass
that always works”
I concur.
Artemis Fate
Aug 13th, 2007
“But now s/he should be more concerned about him/herself than his/her master?
How does that work?”
Through a delicate frabric of lies, doublespeak, and contradictions, that Gorean philosophy precariously exists upon.
Heartun Breaker
Aug 13th, 2007
If there is a group formed around this asstastic lolcubery email me at heartunbreaker (at) gmail.com and I’d love to write about it on my site!
Shameless plug? Sure, lets form a group about that too!
Chav Paderborn
Aug 13th, 2007
I’d offer advice, but it’s against my moral code to help Goreans.
humanoid
Aug 14th, 2007
I can’t look at anything medieval-themed without wondering if some creepy slave or slave master might be lurking around the corner. Thanks a lot, Goreans!
Angel
Aug 14th, 2007
I liked this article
/me grins
shockwave yareach
Aug 14th, 2007
Much better. Well written. One thing that is lacking in many roleplayers – regardless of what kind of roleplaying – is proper writing style. In cybering, writing style is paramount if you want a pair to mount. Touching poseballs is nothing but background scenery. It is the text you and your VR partner write which is the fun part. Little is as unsatisfying as a partner who just lays there grunting and lets the poseball do everything.
Reality
Aug 14th, 2007
Ahem, Artemis – a correction for you here:
“Through a delicate fabric of lies, doublespeak, and contradictions, upon which all of society is based”
There now – your statement is now correct.
Reg Baxter
Aug 14th, 2007
> “Through a delicate fabric of lies, doublespeak, and contradictions, upon which all of society is based”
There now – your statement is now correct.
I have to say Reality that you make your point very well, Bravo. I’m not a big fan of gorean stuff but all of society falls into the description above not just gorean.
Artemis Fate
Aug 14th, 2007
“Ahem, Artemis – a correction for you here:
“Through a delicate fabric of lies, doublespeak, and contradictions, upon which all of society is based”
There now – your statement is now correct.”
Oops, you missed a part in the correction:
Through a delicate fabric of lies, doublespeak, and contradictions, upon which all of society is based, but especially Gor.
You could probably make an argument that all societies are based on that, but if you’re going to say they’re based on it to the extent of Gor, then you don’t know much about Gor.
Reality
Aug 14th, 2007
Nope – didn’t miss anything at all Artemis – society itself is based on those principles. That means it is all inclusive when it comes to those within any subset.
Now if you’re going to say that Gor is somehow worse than all of what Man has ever done in following these principles … You know nothing at all about Man.
Artemis Fate
Aug 14th, 2007
“Now if you’re going to say that Gor is somehow worse than all of what Man has ever done in following these principles … You know nothing at all about Man.”
No i’m saying Society isn’t going to fall apart if you remove one lie, just one part of society might. You remove one lie from Gor (like women are naturally slaves inferior to men) and the entire core of the society/culture falls apart.
Anyways, this debate is retarded.
Corona
Aug 14th, 2007
You could have saved a lot of effort by writing the minimalist version of this article, which boils down to two words
the second of which is Gor
Reality
Aug 14th, 2007
Yes Artemis – the debate IS retarded as you’ve just proven that you know nothing at all about Man.
Please refrain from responding in the future – you’re too optimistic.
Artemis Fate
Aug 14th, 2007
“Yes Artemis – the debate IS retarded as you’ve just proven that you know nothing at all about Man.”
Well, if you consider that proof, it’d make a lot of sense as to where your half-baked facts and ideas come from.
Mostly just confused as to why you jumped in unwarrented, made a comment that was off-topic and only half true, and then jumped into attack mode when I refuted it. Is there a gorean hiding behind that fake name?
Second Lulz Vigilante
Aug 14th, 2007
Kajirae=Collared Hookers You Don’t Have to Pay For
I’ve had SL friends of mine become Goreans overnight. I’ve logged on to find groups that I belonged to have switched to a Gorean theme overnight.
God, I fucking hate Gor.
Reality
Aug 14th, 2007
Nope – a cynic when it comes to the topic of society and Mankind.
don’t like my view? tough – so far it’s proven quite true.
Artemis Fate
Aug 14th, 2007
“Nope – a cynic when it comes to the topic of society and Mankind.
don’t like my view? tough – so far it’s proven quite true.”
Fair enough.
beetle
Aug 14th, 2007
“No i’m saying Society isn’t going to fall apart if you remove one lie,”
Actually if you remove the God delusion, all societies based on god(s) would definitely fall apart.
archie lukas
Aug 24th, 2007
I’m afraid there is just something so unpleasant about Gor
that I just can’t stomach it.
Slavery.
Its just bullying.
Maria Leveaux
Aug 25th, 2007
Bonjour.
I’m a Mistress of many years experience, and many of you have Read my interview, and Posts here. The Two Questions asked in the Above Article are two cardinal signs of a Poor Master/Mistress.
Warning Sign #1: The Dom/me has 6+ slaves or subs on a string, Usually ten or More, this isn’t so much a Dom/me as a Collector. In taking on So many slaves S/he has little time to spend on Each of them for Matters of Training. The more slaves s/he owns, the More the slaves are neglected. The Quality of the slave means Nothing to them, they measure their Own Egos by the Quantity of slaves they own. There are not sufficient tasks or assignments for All of them, and their training and discipline will Suffer. IF the Dom/me Appears to show More attention to one of the slaves over the others (This will usually be the First, or the Last taken on) The other slaves will begin to feel jealousy. Jealousy is a poison that can tear a happy household apart. NONE of the Girls will be performing at their best as they are competing with one another, Attempting to undermine one anothers positions, and All will be concentrating More on themselves than on their owner. The slaves Cannot be Blamed for this However, as it is the Dom/me and not the slaves who Control the Household, and create the environment.
One Well Trained and Happy slave is worth Exponentially more than a chain of Ten Thousand neglected girls.
Warning Sign #2: The Dom/me does not Communicate with the slaves. How can a Dom/me Get Inside their slave, and Know the best way to teach, Train, or guide them if they never speak to them on ANY subject other than Sex? There is FAR more to Training and maintaining a slave than Teaching them to say “Yes Master”, “No Mistress” and to Drop their silks at a seconds notice. If a Dom/me is not trying to get to know their slave they will Lack the Tools that they Need to Properly, and safely Train the girl. If the slave does not REALLY Know their Master/Mistress then How are they to ANTICIPATE their needs and fill them even before they are asked? In my Years as a Mistress i have had Several Girls and More than one of them i could rely upon as a Trusted Advisor, as well as a servant. A Good slave serves ALL their Owners Needs, not just their carnal ones, and to do so they NEED to Know their owner.
I have seen Far too many slaves That are thoroughly Versed in matters of the Furs, but have Precious little Knowledge of Anything Else. They cannot Serve, or Dance, they don’t understand their responsibilities to Uphold their owners Prestige, and honor. They are Rude, and Undisciplined and think all it takes to be a slave is to shake their Money maker at the right time. Dom/mes AND Slaves out there, that is NOT a slave, that is a Prostitute.
When asked, as i frequently am, by New slaves what to look for in Prospective owners, These are two things i STRONGLY advise them to Check out. If they Find a Dom/me with these credentials sizing them up for a collar, I suggest they Avoid them, They will NEVER be Happy, Fulfilled, or Properly trained in those circumstances.
Maria.
Mal Carne
Nov 12th, 2007
Something that’s easy to miss in BDSM relationships -and Gor, by extension – is that the real power in the dynamic is the sub’s, not the dom’s. This is especially true in Second Life, where it is quite literally impossible to force anyone to do anything. (You can always turn off the computer and walk away.) It’s the Master’s job to make the relationship rewarding, not the slave’s.
A Gorean
Feb 29th, 2008
>Something that’s easy to miss in BDSM relationships -and Gor, by extension – is that the real power in the dynamic is the sub’s, not the dom’s. This is especially true in Second Life, where it is quite literally impossible to force anyone to do anything. (You can always turn off the computer and walk away.) It’s the Master’s job to make the relationship rewarding, not the slave’s.
This statement makes it clear you don’t understand the different dynamic that makes Gor different than scene-based Domination/submission play. Focus is on the pleasure of the Master, not on the desires of the slave.
susan
Apr 28th, 2008
A few things I noticed. 1. Slaves do not wear panties. 2 one should be secure with themselves if they are going to be on a chain. If not then do not be on that chain. 3. BDSM IS NOT GOR! Do your homework if you think it is
Ole
May 1st, 2008
I have read all the Gor series and I must agree that the enslavement of Female’s (animals).True Top and bottom relationships do exist.Most women are naturaly submissive and sum men also. All slave’s should be stripped naked tied or chained then thru. training they can earn their collars or other things only if their Master deems it so. Its best to go thru alot of training to fine what your weakness are and your strong points are.
tuhfah Jecies
Jun 15th, 2008
A bookseller who obtained some well used and soiled books of Gor for me, summed it up quite well:
“John Norman’s work is a middle aged man’s wet dream.”
MasterTJ
May 5th, 2011
I just want to know how many of he Idiots posting on here know what hell talking 1st. How many every been in BDSM or Gorean Lifestyle 2nd.Was it just weekend warrior roleplay behind closed bedroom doors 3rd. How many actauly have lived the Lifestyle BDSM and Gor Real Time 4th.How many believe in the Gorean Lifestyle and its values and believes that have been in True Gorean Homes and around those that live the Gorean Lifestyle or even the BDSM Lifestyle 24/7 ..And if want to know yes Ive been in BDSM and Gorean Lifestyle since was 18 Im now 47 so I cant sit here and read this crap from people who never been or live either Lifestyles,,,I am a Poly Master and have 4 slaves collared to Me willingly and Happily and We Live Real/Time,, You can either like My remarks or Not doenst really matter to Me I live My Life way I want and everybody is Happy ,, Want to complain you have My addy to do so ,,,,, MasterTJ
karissa
Aug 3rd, 2012
I find it entirely entertaining how much people really adore to hate on the gorean mentality. There is no right and wrong when it comes to exploring ones lifestyle and personal identity, especially when it comes to sexuality. As long as you are not breaking the law- treat them how they wish to be treated.
The more time you spend deliberating on how ridiculous,degrading, taboo, ect. that the lifestyle is, the more people will become curious of it, and like me, grow to love it.
I am a female slave. I live it every moment of my life, and accept that i am a slave in my heart. I doubt that anyone critiquing the ideals of this ideology have ever committed to fully to anything in your life. not to mention I am sure you have some sorted mental block to understand anything but your own reality.
It is not that every woman belong in a collar, to be a whimpering soiled mess of heat and lust. Or that every man deserves to be at the helm of a womans life and dominate her with full extent.
There are women who have the capacity of freedom. Who are strong leaders and fulfill their place in the world without the weight of chains. And believe it or not, the books do explain this.
There are also men who do better serving the whims of others. Be it through weakness or choice.
So, as my mother might say… Shut ya gob.