The Alphaville Herald

Natalia and Slave 3 — Post 6 D/s Lifestylers

by Alphaville Herald on 03/08/11 at 1:02 pm

[Natalia messaged me several weeks ago and asked if I would be willing to feature her and one or two of her slaves. I haven’t featured a couple (or triple) that I can recall, so I thought it might be fun. It was a pleasure working with both Natalia and Slave 3, and it is an honor to introduce them to you as this week’s Post 6 couple. ~Timothy Morpork]

I was unaware of the D/s lifestyle until I came to Second Life. I knew there was BDSM and bondage and all kinds of weird things over there in the leather and fetish aisle, but I lumped it all together as weird. A woman I met at a club owned a Pet, and I learned about it from her. I have quite taken to the role of Mistress, and I hope my slaves and pets will tell you that I am a good Mistress to have.

I prefer slaves to pets, even if they are roleplayed the same, because I prefer the permanence that rings in the word “slave.” Currently I own three males, the one featured here is my newest and current favorite, Slave 3. I spoil and pamper him like a Pet and in return he would do anything for me.

 I do not like the restrained life viewer and I will not own anyone that insists I make them use it. I am very slow to accept someone as my slave, they have to earn the right to receive my collar, as I think the D/s lifestyle is dependent on a good and solid relationship built on trust, not on programming or gimmicks. Many of my friends use the RLV and I have nothing against it, I just am not a user and nor will my chattel be.

I do enjoy the drama and the comments that the D/s lifestyle gets in-world and in forums. There is nothing so exciting as bringing one or all of my slaves on their leashes to a public event. Slave 3 is especially a lightning rod because he wears a black avatar, but I assure you that race is not part of our roleplay. He signed up to serve me, which is the most important part of what makes D/s so much fun- we know and want and willingly accept our roles.

I believe that if society were more honest and allowed for more of a variety of relationships, like viewing D/s as an equal to marriage, the world would be a much better place. Men and women have only a couple of choices as to how to present themselves to the world (married, single, gay, straight) and we end up with a lot of unhappy pegs in the wrong shaped hole. With more flavors like Domme, Furry, Polygamist, or Witch in the mix, more people would be happier. Feel free to discuss that one amongst yourselves.

Thanks to the Alphaville Herald and to Timothy for featuring us. It has been a thrill and an honor.